And heres another tip. While you are kissing, and while you have your
eye open, if he has his eyes closed and looks like hes really enjoying
it, it means he could do that ALL DAY. And when you start to pull back,
he will too.
The key to kissing
Before we start on successful snogging, lets
get something clear: a kiss is only cool if you want to pucker up. Never
feel obliged to kiss a boy whatever the circumstances. When you force
yourself, youre inviting all kinds of kissing disasters into play.
Try not to be too nervous kissing is natural. When youre ready
to kiss for the first time, youll be amazed how your instincts
take over.
First kiss
When youre ready to kiss, lean your head towards
his til youre about a centimetre apart. Tilt your head
(so you dont squish noses) and pout your lips like you would
for a normal peck, parting them slightly as you press against his
lips.
Purse and release your lips, without breaking contact with his, occasionally
shifting position so it doesnt get boring. The first time you
kiss him keep it short less than a minute. Slow down the motion of your
lips and finish with a light peck.
Tongue action
Once youve got used to his kissing techniques,
try it with tongues. Its much more intimate than a standard
snog. Some people just dont enjoy it, so if you try it with
tongues and you dont like it, dont worry.
Start by kissing normally, then gently slide your tongue into his mouth.
Push your tongue part way in, using slow, gentle movements.
Advanced snogging success
Now youre kissing with confidence, spice up your snog-fest with
some hot tonguing. Twist your tongue around his. Run your tongue lightly
along his teeth and then over the roof of his mouth. Try licking his
lips too and gently caress the very tip of his tongue.
Remember, creative kissing isnt just about sloppy snogs. Kiss
his cheeks and his nose, even his forehead. Pecks still have their place,
so pucker up at regular intervals. Keep your kissing original and exciting
and youll never get bored of it.